I think it's really important to keep having conversations around emotional labor. The things women have to do on a daily basis just to fit all of society's many and sometimes contradictory expectations, good lord. It's like trying to balance on an ever-shifting tightrope.
People also have a finite amount of emotional energy, same as physical and mental energy. Why do you think we're so goddamn tired all the time?
50 Ways People Expect Constant Emotional Labor from Women and Femmes
Every one of these is true and I could probably think of more but I'm TIRED.